Soulmate? Twin Flame? Life Partner? a guide to Analyzing Love Relationships

7/27/2018

By Amber L'Estrange and Jenna Pennrose, Art by Joe Webb

These are 3 archetypal love relationships which humans experience.

These 3 different kinds of romantic relationships and connections can be categorized as Soul Mate, Twin Flame and Life Partner. Don't get stuck on what we have named them, just look for anything here that can help you understand the types of romantic relationships that are possible between humans and WHY you have called them in. One may have repeated experiences with one or all these relationship archetypes, and others will not experience all three in this life. Understanding these love connection types can help us have peace with the fact that different relationships are meant for different reasons, and a circle doesn't have to fit into a square (why your Twin Flame will never work as your Life Partner).

Here are some typical characteristics of these romantic dynamics to help you gain clarity on who you may currently have in your life (or have had), hopefully inspiring a deeper sense of understanding, acceptance and freedom within your heartspace. Each of these scenarios can be looked at as an opportunity to heal and move into a better version of yourself.

Soul Mate

Often first serious relationship
Deep soul connection (may feel more like you were brother and sister in a past life)
Opens you and activates you as a romantic being
Lacking sexual chemistry
This relationship is often everything you think you want, but its just not doing it for you
Involves a battle between the logical mind and intuition (logical mind thinks you should stay as this relationship as it looks great on paper, but your intuition tells you to leave)
WHY THIS RELATIONSHIP COMES INTO OUR LIFE: This relationship serves to open to us up like a budding flower, establishing your romantic self-confidence. It can reestablish belief patterns that you were raised with, and help you feel safe and comfortable to explore. Teaches you that what you "should" want is not always the best for you.
HOW WE CAN HEAL FROM THIS: Strengthening our sense of self separate from relationships. Figuring out what works and what doesn't in our lives, figuring out what really works for us in a romantic partner.
RESOURCES: Listen to our podcast on Manifestation to learn how Amber manifested her life partner.

Twin Flame

Highly passionate and/or sexual
Deep spiritual connection (feels like they were your romantic partner in many past lifetimes)
Unexplainable knowing of them when you look into their eyes which stirs you to the core
Activates triggers and deep wounds that need to come to the surface for healing
Unseen and unexplainable emotional and psychic tie between you
Breaks you down and destroys you (the bigger purpose of which is to rebuild yourself consciously)
Highly addictive dependency on one another (you need them to feel complete)
Blind passion motivating you, separating you from your abilities to problem solve in healthy way
Unhealthy and toxic (people around can notice something is wrong)
Exciting and invigorating, releases endorphins in your body
All your life-force energy goes into this relationship, and not your life mission
Highest highs and lowest lows
Brings out the worst in you, reveals your shadow side, activates all your insecurities
Tests your sense of reality
Both people lack the skills, capacity, and discipline to have a workable relationship in this lifetime, so this relationship cannot work in the longterm.
WHY THIS RELATIONSHIP COMES INTO OUR LIFE: Without this experience, we will not be forced into rebuilding ourselves mindfully in preparation for our life partner. This relationship highlights what we can't live with and what we can't live without.
HOW WE CAN HEAL FROM THIS: This relationship will usually push us into the Dark Night of the Soul, breaking us down and forcing us to re-build everything from scratch. This makes us a stronger and more intentional person. It is from this void that miracles and magic really happen, as it is so far outside your comfort zone.
RESOURCES: Crystals are a magical way to support healing. Sometimes in order to mend a broken heart, a little love is all it needs. Specifically pink crystals, which are known as the crystals of new love, new romance, and new relationships, are also perfect for helping you heal. They focus most often on the heart chakra and can not only aid you in finding love again, but heal the past trauma that is hindering your emotional health. One of the most agreed upon crystals for healing a broken heart is Pink Lemurian Seed crystals. Lemurian Seed Crystals have been used extensively in healing efforts associated with the heart chakra. Get your Lemurian laser wand here.

HC Set: 4.2" Reddish Lemurian Quartz Point w/ Hematite Inclusions Natural Crystal Seed Sparkling Stone Mineral Laser Wand + One Polished Clear Quartz Cabochon

Life Partner

All love relationships before have prepared you to recognize and call in your life partner
Deep, steady, unwavering, reliable love that makes you feel at peace
Sustainability and feeling like it is "just the beginning"
A joint mission that will take a lifetime to complete
Lifestyle match, you want to live the same life
Both partners, as individuals, have done the work to become a whole person, so you are two whole people coexisting
They naturally bring out the best in you
They support healthy independence
No games or jealousy
Both partners can surrender to love and be supported in their individual life mission
A powerful ability for co-creation together
Yin/Yang energy balance (polarity and integration of equal and opposite forces)
You are proud and admire them as an individual in the world
Deep healing that takes place in this relationship
They tick all the boxes and you also have a sense of chemistry and longevity
Spiritual/Sexual connection
WHY THIS RELATIONSHIP COMES INTO OUR LIFE: This is the grand angel that comes into your life to show you how to personally embody sacred union and hold you accountable to truly evolve. You two had a soul contract to do this life together!
HOW WE CAN HEAL FROM THIS: Being supported in your own mission, finding sustainable balance and oneness with each other mimics the oneness of Source/God/Spirit. Nothing heals more deeply than this.
RESOURCES: Just because you have found your life partner does not mean it will be roses for the rest of your life, as we all know, relationships are hard work!! "The Dance of the Lion and the Unicorn" book explores practical tools and powerful insights to help develop conscious and joyful relationships. A must read!!!!

What have been your experiences these archetypes? Have you experienced any of these three types? Let us know in the comments.

10 Comments

PEARL

11/21/2017 04:06:23 pm

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naomi

12/3/2017 11:40:48 pm

This is by far the best article I have read on twins and life partners! And for me I believe it holds so much truth. Especially about the twin souls, I’m so happy to have come across this. I kept saying there’s no way I can live a life with my twin, it’s just so toxic! he just had to have come to help push me to make major decisions in my life. And alll the other articles and videos I’ve come across have said oh twins are supposed to be together, They meet to be together forever blah blah blah! Finally something that sounds more realistic and accurate lol! Absolutely love this

Xoxo Naomi

Amber

12/4/2017 06:57:00 am

Thank you for your comment! So happy you resonate and have found some freedom with it xxxx

Sandra

1/28/2018 12:39:35 am

Thanks to ___dr.mack201@gmail. com for bringing my ex lover back after 3 days…

Tia Good

2/26/2018 01:17:24 am

Twin flames require you to do inner work that's why it feels toxic the turmiol is for your betterment you must heal in order to be with them which is a blessing... how could the one God created you with be unhealthy and toxic? Life partners and most soulmates require no inner work that's they feel more harmonious and peaceful...and sacred union is only privy to twin flames ...no one else can perform the sacred union with you but ur twin....

lea

8/22/2018 05:54:11 am

twin flames? what it mentioned here, Ive experienced, I thought, twin flames is one of d best... Now I am broken inside out, still in my healing process from broken heart.

Cool

9/3/2018 12:41:16 pm

You are speading bullshit disinformation. People beware this is false!! BS

Sam

10/2/2018 01:02:59 am

My best friend Jeff. 22yr age difference... Met at end of 2010. We finally opened up in 2014 and started a relationship and became open about our feelings we would hide from each other... But heres the twist, jeffs married. Has been for about 30yrs, has two adult children with his wife... But when we both fell in love the first time, it was all new and scarey... He spent every minute he could with me, i was young and immature at the time and didnt understand how his actions showed that he loved me and was with me all the time, the man would be stupid to leave his wife, who is a good woman and workaholic. He does whatever he wants pretty much. Anyways, we got separated after 8 months of our trist, due to incarserations, but once those walls came down, we ran to each other again, but more on the friendship level than the romantic even though we still would have sex once in awhile, another incarseration separted us for about 2yrs and now we are here again, but its different, its nothing new or scarey because we have been through this before... Its as if we are marrried, like we've been married since the beginning of time.

Mary

10/28/2018 03:26:23 pm

Twin souls are not toxic to another. What a weird and inaccurate statement. Yes, twin souls are indeed mirrors to one another, but since full acceptance of each other is involved there is no toxicity.

Mamma Jones link

3/3/2019 12:36:28 pm

I love this article so much. I was going to send you a msg on Instagram to request a podcast on this, but now I have all my questions answered.
I have had a soulmate, twin flame and now for the past 15 years life partner.

I agree with every single world you have written. Soul mates are like best friends, brothers, twin flames - oh my Lord - the whole word turn upside down, so magnetic so fire fed, so passionate and defiantly gets you ready for your life partner.
Life partner is just everything. Annoying sometimes though ha ha. Thank you for this. Xxx

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